bribery- a real national disaster?

[dam_is_life]

This is because I have to retake my gyms exam again (!). But it is really outrageous, I was wrong in not attending the lesson regularly( 2 periods absent), but I tried and did progress, and on recommendation of some friends( though I hate this so so much, disgusting) gave the teacher some slush fund. Oai`, and the result, I ended up 3 !!! I just can't make out what is happening, my friends plays badly, if they did play at all...but they still pass, and of course with some amount of money. So itis deduced that if he happened to like letting someone pass, he or she will, or there would be no exception!!. Unfair and outrageous, and this is quite common, I must say..so sad!!! huhu, and I hate to see him again with his monotonous lecturing about doing this and that- sheer hypocrasy..should red alert be turned on when this practice is common deep down somewhere in our system? #-o

[Cigar]

so,dam is life..you topic is difficult to talk...
Sometimes I feel fear with the insane power of money,the power that turn white into black,the good man become the devil..but we must acept that.
Hey,if you go out in the street and you see the thief,can you bring out the conclusion:our socail will full of thievies and end up with them??it's unfair.
hypocrasy one is full in our social,regretfully reality..but it's not mean that every one is the bad one like that.
we learn and work hard for the purpose:bring up out living standard,so money is important..if the LV is higher,and the rules of our nation is harder,bribery will have no cahnce to exist,hope that it will vanish in a near times.

[Duy_Tran]

Really hard 2 understand u, dam_is_life!

Quote: So itis deduced that if he happened to like letting someone pass, he or she will, or there would be no exception!!
Quote: just can't make out what is happening, my friends plays badly, if they did play at all...but they still pass, and of course with some amount of money

The way u use language made me confused... Hix, until now i couldn't understand ur whole story... Sorry dear! And also some words u used, they were so exaggerated (slush fund, outrageous)

Anyway, did u mean that if u want 2 pass the course, u should bribe ur teacher, right? I think it's a badly or outrageously (as u said) normal problem in our Vietnam society. It deeply roots to our government's system. No reasons for that. If u wanna be better than others, u should have "commission".

Life is the blackhole, the more you dig, the more you find it black : U should find more funs out life to know that life is always fully colorful. When u r sad, it's blue or black; happy - pink, love - red... Don't try 2 dig a hole and jump into it.

[kefka]

:)) simple , cause you choose the wrong sport at the beginning , like me , when i was asked to choose between table tennis and volley ball , i have no hesitation to take the first , it's so aristocratic and gentle compare to those barbaric sport of jumping over the net hitting some ball :))

and bout the bribe :)) , it's your fault , i faced an #$@#$&& son of a #$%#$^&^ teacher at the 3rd years , he failed me 2 times on " science socialism " ( i do learn by heart at exam %%$#@ ) and all my friend say that i should pay him a visit with some johnie walker :)) one night time
but i dont' :x , and finally i pass the 3rd with the lowest mark , it's a " draw game five " like we student usually say :)) , i think he finally understand that he cannot make some profit out of me :))

[kefka]

:)) i forgot something , was that your beauty that caught him :x and make him want to see you again and again, ya know , if you pass , he could be sure not to see you ever again :))
dont wash your face and dressed badly next time you see him to check it out :))
remember to mess up your hair a little , ah , i think it's not necessary , it's always ruffed already :))

[Cigar]

So we must try ourselves to avoid the terrible affect of bribery.
DON"T INVOLVE WITH THEM.
To do that,may be we must prepare our exercise until we got no mistake.
No reason for those teacher to kill us :x

[Duy_Tran]

To kelfa: Don't u understand what the topic is about?? Don't be foolish here
To Cigar: Do u have any recommendations to avoid bribery not only in sports but also in our society?

[dam_is_life]

uhm`, it is too late now. I should have thought better of this at first. Okay, I will take the class again, and hear him lecturing ..again and again, but this will have a bearing on my study,,sure it will....and again, another testament to the sad truth..I should not have opened this topic, cause we're unauthorised to do that and it is too serious, so serious that it could ruin our cheerful atmosphere..huay`, forget it!
about hole and so on (!), sth kind of "life is a hole, dig it", right "you only see what your eyes want to see". I am so gloomy and so depressed, no wonder I see things so differently and no wonder odd stupid things always happen to me. But I can be useful in one thing: setting a typical example for others to avoid following my steps (!)

[kefka]

" setting a typical example for others to avoid following my steps (!) " => i dont' think there is any moral lesson can be achieved from your story , we student fail exams as much as leaves in autumn and no one even care bout that
try to be humble this time and remember not to cut class anymore :x , wish you luck

[vuminhtan_84]

bribery is such a serious problem nowadays, not only teachers receive bribe, but also many dignitaries in our country.For example,an entrance examination is expected to be fair ,infact, it isn't.Many people can have their chidren passed because of their relationship.They have money and connection,so they can deceive the law easily.

[outcast]

ryt, again and again ..it is like a sore in our eyes and sth we just take for granted. Have u ever been in such situation..gossiping about how high a friend's score is and end up realizing she/he is the dear child of a teacher..or have you ever noticed that some people just always be the top, skipping classes and finally get through the exam with literally no scratch...okay unfair, but that is the way it goes..you here are all young and idealistic..you may outcry vociferously agains this and that but in the long run, say 10 or 15 years ( just to make sure) you will be the same..the same old tricks, the same old stories, the same old complaints and maybe the same green boys crying for justice....the circle still goes on and on

[kefka]

gossiping about how high a friend's score is and end up realizing she/he is the dear child of a teacher => sometime it going in different way : amazed with your friend high score and find out she/he needs average 8.0 to come right to the school staff after graduted , but it's still suk , i hate those loser who cant even stand on his own feet
maybe im not good , but i still perfer MY OWN test result

[Dartimen]

lol, you guys know what, there is a thine - very thine line indeed, between "thanking a person" and "bribing a person". There is nothing wrong to pay a teacher a visit with a johnie walker - well this is the case where you can afford it. That's one of many ways to show your appriciation ( wonder if I spell it wrong ) to the teacher, to thanks him. He spent time to teach you regardless if he sucks at teaching or not but IT'S HIS TIME after all, you think it's unfair but you should pay him a visit in a while. You can't say that it's his job to teach you, he is paid already. The reason is simple, that's not the way most Vietnamese live. When you are in Rome, act like a Roman. He could be a real assh0le but you got to deal with it but through what you just said above it's not enough to conclude that he has personal hatred against you. If he really has then you should not just avoid him, you should make peace but if he hates you just because your face or your voice then go blame your parents :D ( hey, this is a joke so take it like one ). I myself had meet a lot of assh0les in my life but luckily, I only had to deal with some of them. Another important thing, if you ever pay him or anyone liek him a visit, don't smile at the outside while inside you still want to punch him in the face for by doing that, you lower yourself. Be sincerly as much as you can, if you can't then don't pay him a visit at all. That's just my opinion, life is ours, we live it our own ways so do what you must.

[Dartimen]

I have this story, you guys probably like it :D This is not mine but I like it...

Stepping stones

One day a farmer's donkey fell down into a well. The animal cried piteously for hours as the farmer tried to figure out
what to do. Finally, he decided the animal was old, and the well needed to be covered up anyway; it just wasn't worth
it to retrieve the donkey.

He invited all his neighbors to come over and help him. They all grabbed a shovel and began to shovel dirt into the well.
At first, the donkey realized what was happening and cried horribly. Then, to everyone's amazement, he quieted down.
A few shovel loads later, the farmer finally looked down the well. He was astonished at what he saw. With each shovel of
dirt that hit his back, the donkey was doing something amazing. He would shake it off and take a step up.

As the farmer's neighbors continued to shovel dirt on top of the animal, he would shake it off and take a step up.
Pretty soon, everyone was amazed as the donkey stepped up over the edge of the well and happily trotted off!

Life is going to shovel dirt on you, all kinds of dirt. The trick to getting out of the well is to shake it off and take
a step up. Each of our troubles is a steppingstone. We can get out of the deepest wells just by not stopping, never
giving up! Shake it off and take a step up.

Remember the five simple rules to be happy:

1. Free your heart from hatred - Forgive.

2. Free your mind from worries - Most never happen.

3. Live simply and appreciate what you have.

4. Give more.

5. Expect less

NOW -------- Enough of that crap . .The donkey later came back and bit the shit out of the farmer who had tried to bury him.
The gash from the bite got infected, and the farmer eventually died in agony from septic shock.

MORAL FROM TODAY'S LESSON:

When you do something wrong and try to cover your ass, it always comes back to bite you.