What do u require 2 ur spouse most? Vote here

[Duy_Tran]

Look at a beautiful gl/handsome boy, is she/he attractive u at 1st time? Then, will u like 2 spend all of ur life with her/him? B-) :x
If not, what kind of person do u like 2 require about them? Masuline/ferminine trails, is it better? >:-D<
Between ambitious-hard working and well-paying job, which 1 will u like more? Intelligent n faithful? Will u like 2 live with an intelligent spouse or u like a faithful person more than that? :-/
So what most do u require 4 ur spouse? #-o
Every1 can get 3 choices among these requirements 4 ur spouse!!! (try not voting more than 3, n tell me why do u like 2 choose that 4 ur spouse)
With me, i choose a person with faithful, intelligent n ambitious-hard working 2 live.

[Hung Long]

For me, physical attractive (doesn't have to be pretty, just cute is enough), intelligent, and faithful. There are many girls that I know have the first two traits but only time will tell the third.

[Hank Williams]

haha, faithful, it's really hard to find a woman like that. Once I had a girlfriend, she's pretty, she's cute, and she's intelligent, but she's unfaithful. Since then I've always suspected all of them.
For me, I only need a woman who understands me, satisfys what I have, and a little bit cute :).

[kefka]

I rate them like this :
1.Feminine traits
2.Physically attrative
3.Faithful
the rest doesn't really matter , it's better for them not to have those :))

[dam_is_life]

simply put, an ideal partner is the one who understand you the most, like what people often criticize in you, and give u the secure feeling ..he could, for a period of time, hide you from the wild world outside (hi'hi')
hum`, can't see any of the aforementioned traits fit into this prototype...wrongly catergorized, I guess :))

[Duy_Tran]

simply put, an ideal partner is the one who understand you the most, like what people often criticize in you, and give u the secure feeling ..he could, for a period of time, hide you from the wild world outside (hi'hi')
hum`, can't see any of the aforementioned traits fit into this prototype...wrongly catergorized, I guess :))

If a man can not secure or hide his spouse, it's not a man, just a kid. N if he can not understand, will u get married with him? :-/ Every man can be ready 2 understand n secure a beautiful lady, n will u choose all of them 2 b ur spouse? :-/ 1 of them should have some more powerful characters that u'd like more than others. B-)
It's just normal, my question is about what kind of person u like 2 spend ur life with; certaintly he should understand n b able 2 secure u. B-)

[lemoney]

Excuse me, what does “Masuline/ferminine” stand for :-s ?

In fact, physical attractive trait in girl attracts attention in most of us easily. “well-paying job”…even not exist in “my dictionary” and I won’t choose for good :)). But cruelty that the cupid give us we haven’t right to choose. She’s over there…and BOOM, we “spring trap” :)) and only the time will tell the rest of traits above.

Quiet-looking and private girls always attract me intensely and the reality in my fate proved it absolutely right :x.

Hank, how could you and your girl hand in hand when you’ve put the doubt on them ? How strange !!

[Duy_Tran]

Oh guys, u should vote 4 the questions with 3 answers, so then we can c which 1 is the most important that we require 4 our spouse. Com on guys...
Now as i c, no1 still likes that her/his spouse should have a well-paying job, rite? So u can earn money 2 feed ur love, eh? Let's show more reasons y u chose that 4 ur spouse. After all, we can conclude what the most importance 4 a perfect family is!!!
Take it easy all!!! Have fun here.

[mimosa]

If I have my choice then it would be like this, from greatest to least

1.Intelligent
2.Well-paying job <- have to work for your own, but it would be much nicer if there is someone there to support you right? :)
3.Faithful

4.Physically attrative
5.Masculine traits
6.Ambitious-hard working

An afterword, it's kind of hard to tell who you will fall in love with, but if you can keep a clear brain, then it will be easier to work out the equation, but if you are way deeply in love with someone, I doubt the rating would even entered anyone's mind right?

[Duy_Tran]

Any1 has rites 2 choose a spouse that they wanna live with. They should find out fr their spouse be4 they get married. Otherwise, if there r some conflicts in their lives n can not be sloved, it will lead 2 a broken-family. I agree with mimosa ur last answer that a deeply love can slove whatever they dislike toghether; but 2 decide 2 get married it would affect all of ur remaining live. Thus, u should make sure that u can suffer or change these things of ur spouse.
E.g if a gl fall in love with me & she don't like me playing chess, want me give it up; i think it's better 4 her 2 give up with me. Coz i can not change it, it's also similar 2 a kind of my characters n i think it's not bad. So y should i change it?

[ipridian_elf]

i wanna have a really perfect spouse ... ummm yeah, sounds utopian, but it's true, since you love her (well actually at least for 60% is you love her physic), so you can't compare her to others (which is also contestable, since after 2 years living with somebody you'll easily get tired of the person) .... so it means that u thinks that she is the best, which means that u've chosen her with "the perfect lady" in mind .........

[Duy_Tran]

With me, when i love a gl, i will not only love her physic but also all things about her (dressing, characters...) Thus i will think she would be the most beautiful gl in my mind. Even if i see a Miss, i would never think that she's more beautiful than mine.
The more beautiful a gl is, the less she's attracted me. Coz, she's so beautiful to attract others, n i would never want a spouse like that. I just like normal one 2 be mine.