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nguyensu1990
20-03-2004, 21:33
My friend like a boy in same class. But she can't tell him about that so she asked me to make friend with him to tell him about that for her. I don't know the reason of why she can't tell him about that, but she was my friend that I should help her what I can. I did for her request, I made friend with him and I found out that he was a nice boy!(Ah!).Well, I don't mean I like him, do you understand,huh? About me, he was my friendly, like her, but he did not think so! Oh, my god, in Monday morning (this is 8/3), he talked to me that he like me and give me a present, and I got it!(I was wrong, very wrong!) I swear when she asked me, I just thought I made friend with him to help her or I would have a new friend. And now, I feel he isn't only my friendly! What can I do, huh? Help me, I don't want my friend to misunderstand me, I don't want she to think that I steal her boy friend, but...but now, I like, very like him. He is very kind boy, he's just thought she is my friend, no more, should I tell him the truth? And should I be his grilfriend if he knew the thruth and he didn'n care of it?

nguyensu1990
20-03-2004, 21:45
My friend like a boy in same class. But she can't tell him about that so she asked me to make friend with him to tell him about that for her. I don't know the reason of why she can't tell him about that, but she was my friend that I should help her what I can. I did for her request, I made friend with him and I found out that he was a nice boy!(Ah!).Well, I don't mean I like him, do you understand,huh? About me, he was my friendly, like her, but he did not think so! Oh, my god, in Monday morning (this is 8/3), he talked to me that he like me and give me a present, and I got it!(I was wrong, very wrong!) I swear when she asked me, I just thought I made friend with him to help her or I would have a new friend. And now, I feel he isn't only my friendly! What can I do, huh? Help me, I don't want my friend to misunderstand me, I don't want she to think that I steal her boy friend, but...but now, I like, very like him. He is very kind boy, he's just thought she is my friend, no more, should I tell him the truth? And should I be his grilfriend if he knew the thruth and he didn'n care of it?

Thầy Đội
20-03-2004, 21:50
...Sound familiar ...best thing you should do is treat him as close friend,not farer than...do not bother her friend if your behavior is right..."forcus on studying" is better, little girl...

kefka
21-03-2004, 11:47
i think you should take the boy , since love is selfish and he like you too , right ?
moreover , why do we have to care bout other' feeling if that makes we hurt instead ? just have close eyes and follow the voice of your heart :x

conchaivn
21-03-2004, 13:30
i think you should take the boy , since love is selfish and he like you too , right ?
moreover , why do we have to care bout other' feeling if that makes we hurt instead ? just have close eyes and follow the voice of your heart :x
but she doesn't love him. The problem here is her friend love him, he love her, and she love...nobody. Love is complicated.

conchaivn
21-03-2004, 13:32
opps, misunderstood, she actually love him now,
oh yeah, love is more complicated than i can understand

BROOM
23-03-2004, 17:24
i don't think as Kefka. why ? but first, i want to let you know that i have no experience,you can listen to me,or not.
um...i think selfish, it's not very good, i agree that in some special cases,it's the best thing. and i know, it's very easy for me to tell something about your trouble, it's not my trouble, and i know only you know exactly what to do, because the one who must solve this problem is YOU. and,i think you should tell your friend about your thought, all and truly, and so, although what happen next, you can be sure that you did a good thing! um, of course, you have your own solution,however, i hope you will cope with this successfully.

kefka
24-03-2004, 11:42
:)) , i just give some advice to this man , it's not me that need some advice , little duckling , i always know how to handle my problem :))

" she doesn't love him " => was this really important ??? i think love doesn't play a major role in girl's love affair :)) , as long as you're handsome , rich , or at least be a man :)) , they want to have you in their head hunting collection :x

nguyensu1990
03-04-2004, 11:45
I told him, but his silence was his answer! Well, I worried very much but I knew that we needed more time to handle our problem, and 1 week later, he said to me:"Acctually, You should tell me about the truth when you made friend with me but anyway it's not the problem now, the problem is who I like is you, not your friend! We should tell her about the truth, I know that she will be very sad for that truth, but it's the best way for her and for us now!" Ah, what do you think? this's what we can do now, but it's not easy to do it, you know, huh? And like him, her answer was her silence! I knew everything I said to her was useless, she didn't hear me to say anymore! I don't want to lost her-my friendly, but I don't want to lost him- a kind boy in my heart, too! Perhaps I was very very selfish, I want to improve our friendship, but maybe it was very late. It's me who caused our bad relationship, right?

There was the one who said to me a funny words: "The love is the moutain of gold but the friendship is the mountains of diamond "About me, these's words now is not a funny words! I have to choose, a love or a friendship! If you were me, which would you choose?

kefka
03-04-2004, 19:09
The love is the moutain of gold but the friendship is the mountains of diamond => but what will you choose if you can get lot of diamond mountains but only one gold mountain ? the answer is obvious :))
truth never be easy to accept , sometime it's hurt , but it's still the best way to walk your life :x

Hank Williams
03-04-2004, 19:17
@nguyensu: Well, I think you should tell your friend just go head! :D All the boys are evil >:). If she gets too shy to do that, why don't you become their link, girl? Just tell the boy something.