when my sister is a spinster

[dam_is_life]

hichic, she is still young, 25 but she has the full capacity of being such a thing. She has never given any one a glad eye and seemingly, has never fallen in love. She kept a diary and she is a better writer than me. In that she wrote ( hic, I can't resist my curiosity, it lay temptatously before me) that she did not bother when some of her friends have got married. She doesn;t want to have babies now (!). I have no comment on her ideas. But then what, she turn her attention to me. Now that she has nobody to think of, she thinks of how I spend my time, keep a close eye over everything I do and even wonder if I have taken enough bath. Oops, a real nightmare. Others say I should not complain and should take it as a blessing. Blessing? hichic, no way.

[vanity]

Fortunately , you got a sister.You must be happy for that.I have no sister and two brothers . Two of them caused a lot of trouble, so awful .She's a spinster? No problem.Nowadays literates usually have tendency to live alone.I think your sister is very modern .But she shouldn't treat you like that.You seem to lose freedom even in your house.If i was you i would speak directly to her i would struggle to take my freedom back.No one can't control yourself .Now i'm going to be a spinster like your sister lol .I still want to have boyfriends smart men always drive me crazy lol....but i won't get married lol :))

[vBulletin]

hichic, she is still young, 25 but she has the full capacity of being such a thing. She has never given any one a glad eye and seemingly, has never fallen in love. She kept a diary and she is a better writer than me. In that she wrote ( hic, I can't resist my curiosity, it lay temptatously before me) that she did not bother when some of her friends have got married. She doesn;t want to have babies now (!). I have no comment on her ideas. But then what, she turn her attention to me. Now that she has nobody to think of, she thinks of how I spend my time, keep a close eye over everything I do and even wonder if I have taken enough bath. Oops, a real nightmare. Others say I should not complain and should take it as a blessing. Blessing? hichic, no way.
Yeah, noway, that's right atleast til the day I come to her :)) if I was living next to your sister ,everything will soon change, I can tell you that, wish that we could have the chance to try this, but... really noway :( . My appearance to a girl always exciting, interesting, and make them changing their lives, but bad or good i'm not sure lolzz:))...Is it funny, to review my life i could tell that's really really true..... hic!

[kefka]

she's 25 => elder sis doesn't want to get marry :)) , sound terrible enough
i myself doesn't have any sibling so i cant' give you any advice , all i can do is pray for u , i know how horrible a " storaged lady " is , my boss is just a nice example :((
anyway , why do you mention some " bathing problem " ??? you hate to have a bath ? :))

[dam_is_life]

hey, just an example of my being suffocated by my sis care, u interpreted in ur typical way. So u r the only child? No wonder ur so naughty. Some of my friends wish for sisters instead of their current brothers. I don't be silly like that, but 'storaged women' are becoming more and more popular nowadays. To vanity: I don't think a spa is good, I know a 30 woman who has to make do with an old man as a sencond wife - awful. I would rather carry on alone than be in such situation. HIx

[vanity]

hey, just an example of my being suffocated by my sis care, u interpreted in ur typical way. So u r the only child? No wonder ur so naughty. Some of my friends wish for sisters instead of their current brothers. I don't be silly like that, but 'storaged women' are becoming more and more popular nowadays. To vanity: I don't think a spa is good, I know a 30 woman who has to make do with an old man as a sencond wife - awful. I would rather carry on alone than be in such situation. HIx

h-huh ! i agree with you that a spinster isn't good. Two women in the next house to be over 40 years of age .Both of them don't get married because of their nature.Their younger brother's wife often comes to my house and complains of their vices with my mother . That's why they can't get married... :)) i'm not the kinda woman like that.I want to be a spinster it doesn't mean i won't get married.I can't resist my destiny.You know i haver never trust in the fortuneteller before until once my friend introduced me to a fortuneteller.It was amazing !!!all she said about me is completely right.Hic just onething i don't want to know that she told me that i would get married at the age of 25.I felt wretched when she told me that. /:)
More and more sleepless night.I hope tonight i can sleep well.If not i'will meet you in this English box on 2h 30' AM :x

[kefka]

vanity and dam , don't be so sure like that , you two dont' meet me yet , my charming is unresistible :))
dam , i dont think it's just an example , must be something that repeated many many times sothat it always stay in your mind and pop up here :))

[vanity]

vanity and dam , don't be so sure like that , you two dont' meet me yet , my charming is unresistible :))
dam , i dont think it's just an example , must be something that repeated many many times sothat it always stay in your mind and pop up here :))

Hey Kefka ! unresistible<---------irresistible??????? I don't know how charming you're but i want to let you know that i curb my emotion extremely good :)) .My current life taught me that.Nothing is irrestible . :>

[kefka]

Nothing is irrestible , but kefka :))
i make some mistake but i'm happy that you get my idea , you want to know the reason why ?
i'm the most pretty-polite-honnest-well behaved-warmed heart man in this forum , was that be enough ? :x

[vanity]

Nothing is irrestible , but kefka :))
i make some mistake but i'm happy that you get my idea , you want to know the reason why ?
i'm the most pretty-polite-honnest-well behaved-warmed heart man in this forum , was that be enough ? :x
Yup if you have enough all good quality above i'm sure that you are great.But you can't attract me because you lack of intelligence :))

[kefka]

gee , what can u do with intelligence ??? only smart that count
study like a book worm and ended up as a book worm :)) => it's not my style

[dam_is_life]

uhm, bookworm is no good, neither is egghead. But I like books a lot, at least they are fair to us, if u r kind to them, they will behave nicely to u, books hardly betray us like humans do. What they give are corresponding to what we give - fair.
I am trying to untie my sister's noose. She tries to bring me home but I turn down her offer, although this would mean my taking bus - hichic,being packed like sardines. At least , it will heip me breathe better. But it is really odd, my sis is not unsightly, two men visited her yesterday and one man showed his jeolousy- a good start. Why did not she pick one. Hic.
hey kefka, so u r a smart naughty braggard one? :)) no wonder vanity give so strong a resistance :))

[kefka]

you like to read book ??? nice , i do too
what kind do you like ? any author do you prefer ? what book have you read ? :)) , it's rare to find someone still like reading book these days , too many quick-viewing thing like computer , tv , radio , shhhh ... book will be vanished in one or two decades next :((
shall we share some knowledge on novel :)) , since my reading friend go aboard , i didn't even take a book anymore .
betrayal dosen't really matter , only if it's not the betrayal of yourself :x , at least there's one people never betray you , can count me as number two if you want :))

showing his jealousness ? :)) , must be he's loving her too much or he's really loser :))
love rule number one : do not showing your felling easily
love rule number two : ask twice , girls never accept on first try :))
love rule numder three : always take bath before dating ( for dam-is-life only :)) )
.......

u r a smart naughty braggard one => i will take this as a compliment :))

[dam_is_life]

what do u mean by reading friend? So u read in ur friend's presence, or ur friend read books for u--> ur illiterate, oops? I have thought better of the gov's illitaracy eradicating campaign. ( hehe hihi, I have taken revenge on u- don't dare get under my skin again)

[kefka]

i mean both he and i like reading book and we share information bout the good book that had been published and the feeling bout the book , character we love or hate , etc
because of him i could read my most favorable novel - ah , greatest novel of mankind : " Sự Bất Tử " ( of Milan Kundera ) , do you know it ? miss government-educational policy-advertiser :x ?

" I have taken revenge on u " - opp , it's hurt , really hurt , please , mistress , dont , dont ever do it again or else i would be died of laughing :)) mwa ha ha

[dam_is_life]

ehm`, he who laughs last laugh the longest...Be careful or I will put a curse on u ( I am obsessed with superstition and charms and so on). Er er, Kundera I have heard that name. Clearly you are giving a tricky question , in the hope of damping my self-esteem ( I have a lot of that hihi). But I sure have heard of him, ony that I have not read any of his work ( how can I hu hu). I was recommended by a ...Maths teacher. Uhm, that author ranks second after the writer of " Tram nam co don" in the public poll over who is the most favorite author..., ryt (!)> that is what I know about..hope you could widen my limited knowledge ...

[kefka]

yeah , he was place number two in modern world greatest writer contest , just after the founder of " chủ nghĩa lãng mạn hiện thực Mĩ La Tinh "
his novel when translate into vietnamese was a bomb in that year , althought it got only 3rd prize at translation novel ( cause policy problem :(( ) but everyone says the writer did a perfect work , i want to meet the translator someday , he's awesome too
you should read it , come to Nguyễn Xí and have one :x and if you like i could show you some more books

" I will put a curse on u " => why dont u put a court on me instead :)) ? i would died more quickly :))

[dam_is_life]

hic, my hands and feet are tied..how could u always be so ..outrageous like that.ehm`, Nguyen XI, how do u know about that? u r not living round there, ryt? but cool, one can find a lot of stuff there. UHm, do u know about Ho Anh Thai, again my Maths teacher recommended, is it true that his books were first famous outside Vietnam ? and then the fame went back to his country???

[kefka]

I come to HN sometimes :)) , so i know it rather well
dunno bout that author , but it's still dangerous to read book from oversea , never know what will happen if you're caught red hand :))

Vietnam doesn't have many good book to read , our writer's minds are somewhat simple :))

[dam_is_life]

hey, should show some patriotism, sir, don't disparage our domestic literature... hichic, it is my sis again, a real pain in my neck. Poor her would - be husband ( if any). She turned off my alarm clock yesterday, sure she must have done that. Consequently, I was left overloaded with workd. GRU GRU, I wish a pig- like man will finally haunt her whole rest of life ( like she does to me).

[Cigar]

Hey,I feel dizzy with your posts,what the hell in this topic???
Bookworm will die soon,she looks older than the playful and live_ful girl.It mean:nothing in the beutiful trash,he he.
But I feel scare with the inteligent from girl..in their eyes all that I do is stupid.
-->One more heart to heart topic???

[kefka]

but it's still good to read some book , it's worst when you have to discuss bout some literature topic or some book you've never read , you will show your stupidity and make fun for the crowd , don't you want that ?
it's not only from the eyes of them that you're stupid , for ex : not in my eyes :))

[dam_is_life]

do you know who is the most stupid in the world, it is the one who tell others that they are stupid. So you are not stupid ( sure), and neither are others. No one is stupid and I hate running down people before or behind their back.

Everyone has his or her own like and dislikes, and each has his or her own way. Mine is a sullen dissatisfied way. If someone share my viewpoint and emotions, they are welcomed. If they are out of phase with what I feel, no problem I won't get in their way, and never disparage or announce that they are wrong in doing that. I would humiliate my self in changing at other's will, I have to live my life , ryt???
Then, talking of attitude I believe mine is not very negative(!). Do u think make provision for the worst is the bad, at least I will be available when my friends fall and need a shoulder to cry on. As for me, I would not dare get near those lively optimistic when I am so so groomy...hi`hi`

[Cigar]

live near the optimistic one,will make ourselves more live ful..the distance between one and one will shorter,it change the heavy air into light,so I not agree with you,dam.
I think,stupid one still esixt in our world,we can see manmy example..the most clearly..is the man with the only few knowledge in his brain,but he try to show to every one that he was the intelligent one.
For example,newbie shows the expert one how to play starcraft,may be the expert doesn't say anything,but he still feel anoy with that.
To discuss about the book that we never read..hmm,it was the hard way..unless he try to complete his knowledge before they realize about that.
Mistake is the way make we grow ourselves..so who dare to huliminate the others??

[kefka]

just live your life the way you like :x , of course only if that dosen't make your lover unhappy :))
anyway , any girl who think cigar is stupid would be sorry , he may look like one :)) , but from inside he's really cunning and dangerous

[dam_is_life]

sure I will live my life the way I want to be. As a matter of fact, no advice or warning or argument have been convincing enough to change my way. And if my having a partner means my abandoning myself, thank goodness I haven't got any :)). Okay, u have your viewpoint, pursue it, I have mine, don't bother about mine..I like the way I am he`he`

[kefka]

i didn't mean to lecture you or something , i'm just unhappy to see a girl ruining her gracefulness :)) , anyway it's not my problem if you're want to be such a tomboy :x , shhh ....
too bad you're in HN , if you're here i will introduce you to some of my friends , they will show you some feminineness

[dam_is_life]

hmm hmm, I hate arguing, but how do u know that I am ruining my grace or what, how can u be so sure about sth intrinsic in myself ? I hate to be a copy cat and thus, can't stand being imposed on any framework of being like this and that..I hope that is said enough about this matter..

[kefka]

:)) i dont want you to be a copy cat , but a master of mimicry :)) , just joking , but why do you hate learning from other ? what have you done at school ? was you mimic things that has been discovered by foreman :)) ?
learning from good traits from others is not an easy task , like in you case , totally hopeless , i think :x :))
" how can u be so sure about sth intrinsic in myself " => because of my sixth sense :))