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Hank Williams
16-12-2003, 09:12
Seems like this forum doesn't attract people's attention much. Do you think it's getting boring?
Common, people, tell me your opinions how to improve our English forum. All of you can give me some advices about anything. If the advices look good, and within my bounds of possibility, I'll do that right away ;).
You're welcome!

Regards!

lemoney
16-12-2003, 12:54
Yeah...it’s getting boring... few members ...When an interesting topic was set..few mems took part...like “20/11 Teacher’s Day” of troc...”How to give up smoking” of Black (I did not ‘cuz I have no exp in that)... I know lots of mems just read ‘n do not like post in here.

Look like every topic tends to become a talk of a mems group who knew before ‘n it make others feel “lạc lõng”...’n they wouldn’t like to “talk”.

No many interesting topics...just love, lady...There’re only these things in our lives ?

When I take part in here...I’d like to acquaint with all of you first ‘n practise my bad skill at English then. But I haven’t got any opnions about my faults or any one’s faults in grammar, syntax or using right words from you..guys who good at English as Hank, Anaconda, Wolf, Cigar.. etc.. :p. I think guys in here do not mind about that...you can correct our faults ‘n it’ll make us better. I think so...I’m also happy to know more slang words, the way you “talk” English from all of you ..I’d like to learn more from all of you, men. That’s all I thought.

Cigar
16-12-2003, 15:10
Hey,I really feel sad about that box,Hank.
In my opinion,we shuold create some topic which atract more people like:music,animal,or war:))
may be some topic like another box..but wrtie by English..for example "Tam Su"(it already have,and attract a lot of people)..and I recommend another like:Anime and manga,Football..was taht possible??
My English is not good,I know that..but I like that box..a lot of my friend was there.

Justwonder
16-12-2003, 15:40
Since the vast majority of residences of GVN are from VN, and thus, Vietnamese is their mother tounge, it is not easy to gather their attentions, especially in this sort of forum. It's not that they are not interested in talking with each other in English, it's just that they might not know what to talk about, and who they talk to. Even though most of people who visit, anticipate, contribute to this website have quite a bit of English on communication basis, they are still quite bounded in particular subject, such as movies, sports, life, pen pal, etc...In addition, vocabularies is also a big hindrance which plays a big factor in the way of communicating. Therefore, casual visitors will find this place rather boring, unattractive, and negative. However, I have found that Vietnamese people are crazy about soccer, which is also a type of sport on the mainstream now, and so this is a very good time to discuss about soccer. For example, we can talk about Vietnamese's soccer in the future; we can talk about the upcoming world cup in 2006; we can talk about the what if in term of Vietnamese's soccer on a global scale, etc... Furthermore, Christmas is coming, we can talk about what kind of gift we should buy for our friends, relatives. We can talk about place of interest for Christmas and New Year. We can talk about what we like about food, what we love in term of gifts...just to inform our friends. A lot more we can talk about. Nevertheless, keep in mind that seasonal topic is always more interesting and is easier to participate than the life long topic.
Above are just my own opinions to the forum, in hope that it will make this forum more enjoyable. Other than that, I'm just a newcomer who love to have fun sometimes.

Andromeda
16-12-2003, 18:12
I think the main problem here is "we some people here is going to school everyday, and they have no time to post here for long time, and this makes our box boring like someone here said before.
Correcting your mistakes by telling you in posts? I think this will makes some people affraid of posting here. I think the best way to improve your vocabulary and stay away from mistaken words is "We open a new topic for who is new, and they can use little Vietnamese to post their questions. We can help them in such that way. The new people when come here, we see us using English so good and they feel affraid.
I will tell you more but now I must leave my class room.

Hank Williams
17-12-2003, 08:59
When I take part in here...I’d like to acquaint with all of you first ‘n practise my bad skill at English then. But I haven’t got any opnions about my faults or any one’s faults in grammar, syntax or using right words from you..guys who good at English as Hank, Anaconda, Wolf, Cigar.. etc.. . I think guys in here do not mind about that...you can correct our faults ‘n it’ll make us better. I think so...I’m also happy to know more slang words, the way you “talk” English from all of you ..I’d like to learn more from all of you, men. That’s all I thought.
Common, don't be shy, buddy. We're all Vietnamese, and who dares to be sure that they never make mistakes in using English? I'm dam-n sure that I'm one of the worst guys in here :p, so that I feel so shame with my English sometimes (then "my English's pretty bad, so don't laugh at me" :D). Making mistake here doesn't mean a thing. Don't we come here to improve our English skill? Then don't be shy!

Hey,I really feel sad about that box,Hank.
In my opinion,we shuold create some topic which atract more people like:music,animal,or war
may be some topic like another box..but wrtie by English..for example "Tam Su"(it already have,and attract a lot of people)..and I recommend another like:Anime and manga,Football..was taht possible??
My English is not good,I know that..but I like that box..a lot of my friend was there.
Yeah, you're right. Many times I've thought that I should create some topic about these, but I've not been sure that people will be interested in them.
Can you help me, then? Help me create some exciting topics like these! ;)

To justwonder: Uh huh, you're right, too. I can see that your English's pretty cool ;), you must be an English hunter, buddy. Yea, I understand what you said. Lotsa people don't wanna join in here cos they think they're not good at English, in other words, they're not confident much huh? And sounds like you have the same thought as cigar, that's good!

To Alone Wolf: Yup, just like justwonder, you mean that. You people haven't known that I used to try to attract people come here when this English forum was created. I posted many topics into many boxes in order to do this. However, it was uncuccessful.

Andromeda
17-12-2003, 22:26
I guess I can know what you were trying to do when this box was created. Yes,, in the first time when we had this box created. No people came here because they were affraid of their English skill. And what did a mod can do at that time? He MUST post reply to people to attract them. I used to do this when I joined to vnwebgame with a same job there, is moderator of English box. And know, when I am an admin of my forum, to attract people to post in my forum, I always must reply to everybody.

Hank Huynh, I saw you have done well in this forum as in vietwings.net. You posted so lot there and here to attract people. I was once your victim in Music box, you invited me to come here, and now I am proud of that I am a mod (a bad mod, who knows nothing about games but little in English). I did like you did in this summer and I have 4 friends, BROOM, AURON, Linh Vu Tru and troc, after that we met Anacode, lemoney, mars and ciga, they are people who always post here!

Now, to attract people, I think I will reply all topics of your like before to make people happy, excited. I have not come to any boxes in this forum except this box. For 3 months, I just only posted here. I am a mod of this box, my responsibility is to not let this box sad or die like some one said.

Last 2 days, I have lots things to tell you, but I must leave. Now, I forgot all ^_^. But now, I won't say, I just do it!

Justwonder
18-12-2003, 04:10
Alone Wolf has said it all! According to a research conducted by a group of psychologists and psychiatrists, together they have found an interesting result: everyone, no exception, that always feels lonely and left out, even though one is the happiest looking folk in the world, one still fears that he/she is not attractive enough to the others. Then again, they also have found that everyone, no exception, always feels that he/she is the center of the universe, and thus, one will ask for attention from others more than one will pay to the others. What does this mean? It means that when someone speaks, he/she needs someone else to listen to. When someone is in trouble, he/she needs someone else to help, to take care of him/her, to comfort him/her, and to encourage him/her to move on. This, somhow, is what this forum is missing. I understand that being a Mod, an Admin is not easy at all. These people are always being pushed from both sides; bearing others' problems unreasonably; going through others' businesses without willingness; interfering in others' privacy reluctantly. Therefore, there is nothing other on earth that is frustrating and pathetic as being a leader; a Mod, an Admin in this case, particularly. However, being a Mod, an Admin, here after will be known as leader, one must realizes that those who are being leaded, are just kids, regardless ages, races, educational backgrounds, personal histories, so on and so forth. How do we deal with kids? We don't spoil them, but we don't ground them, too. We have to find out what they want. We have to take time to get to know them. We have to force ourselves not to let them know that we are tire of them, and that we only want to get rid of them ASAP. I know that everyone is busy with a lot of things in their lives on a daily basis. However, once one accepts his job as a leader, one must knows that one has to have something to give, and that one must sacrifices something else.

Back to the main dispute, I think, please keep in mind that this is just my own plain idea, that you have to spend more time on what you are doing, especially in this forum, where you are the leader, and everyone else is your kids. You should spend more time to get to understand them; ask for their opinions, reward them for their ideas, encourage them to express themselves without being shy, and so on. You also should let them know that you are always by their sides to back them up, and that you are always willing to forgive them for their wrong doings. There is a simple way to do this. Log in everyday, five minutes, ten minutes are enough if you don't have time. Then post something interesting, especially about yourself, to attract them. Kids are always curious about their leaders. If people come to visit this forum and see that their leaders are here, by looking at the msg and spot your nick, it will give them the motive to reside here more frequently. You figure yourself why. For instance, if you go home and you don't feel like it's a family of yours, will you still want to be as part of it? Let consider this forum as your family, and you are the head of the household, and try your best, see what you can do and don't forget that we are always behind you to...backstab you :) just kidding.

Last but not least, I want to point out that you are kind of sluggish in term of replying to members' msg. It's the best way to ask them to leave. I'm serious, since I have enough exp. in this field, I know what I am talking about and I know what to suggest others to do. So, if you think that my words are worth your time, then I am glad and I am more than happy to talk more. However, if my words are making no sense to you as you skim through them, then I'll back off and I promise you won't hear from me again. I'm looking forward to torturing your brain more. :)

P.S. Trust me, I'm not spending times to write trash. In fact, I have been through this numerous times, and I know that I am saying the right words.

lemoney
18-12-2003, 08:53
He deserves to get the claps from us =D> =D> , men…Yeah, Justwonder’s English is really pretty good. I like this sentence:

However, being a Mod, an Admin, here after will be known as leader, one must realizes that those who are being leaded, are just kids, regardless ages, races, educational backgrounds, personal histories, so on and so forth

Heh.. man I like your posting above much…you described your opnions so good by English…heh I can’t see your introduction in topic “Introduce yourself here !”. Common. let us know about you :>. I guess you’re in overseas, right ?

So, if you think that my words are worth your time, then I am glad and I am more than happy to talk more
I love to :>…go on.

Hank Williams
18-12-2003, 08:59
To All:
Well, I've really loved this box since the day it was born. At that time, this box was excited, and full of members here, most of them are Vietnamese living abroad, or even foreigners. But what a pity, I can't figure out what happenning with this box, it's been getting boring since then. The day I became a new mod for this box, it's such a nice surprise :), but I know that my English is not good enough to be a leader, maybe cos I was doing so many impressive things.
That's interesting, the advice that justwonder has given me was the one that I tried to do in the past, furthermore, I opened a lot of topics in hot boxes, I made many polls in order to attract people. After that, this box was a little fun, people came here with happiness, they discussed with each others in peace.
Nowaday, I really don't know why, all of them have gone away :(.

OK, what will you think if I make this box as a small mother-forum? I mean in this box, you can find some rooms that have the same meanings with boxes outside the forum index :). For example, "Games", "Music", "Sports", "Anime-Manga",...

To Alone Wolf: Hey, don't talk like that, man. You're really expert in games ;), not only English.

To justwonder: I have to say "thank you" with you, buddy. Do that impress me much? :) Don't ever think that people don't care about your post, man. At least, there's me the one who's read it clearly :). I know how you feel, cos almost everybody's here has the same feeling like you, they're really afraid that their posts will become meanless without anyone reading, and supporting. Common, you're welcome! ;)

Oh, my friend, lemoney, why don't you come and see me sometimes, buddy? Just save more time to join in here, I'm pretty sure that your English skills will be improved soon :), you will master them all, and it will a just a snap for you. Ain't it good?! ;)

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Regards!

Justwonder
18-12-2003, 12:08
Man, I'm touched!! :) Anyway, since I am welcome here, I won't hesistate to talk more. Don't get me wrong, though. I'm not going to talk nonsense. All that I have expressed right here, in this forum specifically, are mostly from my own experiences. I know that dealing with people who are trying to be kids, who are pretending to be kids is much harder than dealing with the real kids. I understand this, and on behalf of the rest of the folks, I, and we, really do appreciate your efforts. Why is it easier to deal with real kids than the pretending-to-be ones? Because real kids have the pure souls. They have never been contamminated by the reality, they have never been exposed to the cruelty, while the pretending-to-be have been through all these. Nontheless, that's not the end of the world. Everything has its own bad and good features. The thing is how to find their good features, so that we can help them to improve what is considere to be good.

Most of the time, people are shy to express themslves for two main reaons:
1. Everyone, no exception, is afraid of their own fears. They are afraid of their own weak points that will make people laugh at them. They are afraid to show their feeling because they don't know if their feeling will be respected, insulted, or ignored. These characteristics are also known as self-respect. (I will try to use more common words in order to make my messages are more understandable. However, sometimes, I can't help but to use some categorized words. So, please bear with me as I will explain the meaning of the words I use in the followed sentences.) Those who have been living in a dysfunctional family will build the self-respect more solid than the others, and thus, make them are more diffcult to get along with. The only way to deal with these type of people is to make them mind-opened. How do we do it? We carry out this mission by encouraging them to talk about themselves more; but first, talk about yourself to them before they will talk to you about themselves.
2. Everyone, no exception, always feels that they are right on everything, though somewhere in their thought, they know that they are wrong, but they will never admit it. How do we deal this these type of people? First, be sure to let them know that they will not be serverely punished for their wrong doings. That they know that they will be, somehow, forgiven for what they have done wrongfully. More importantly, be sure to let them know that no one is perfect, everyone makes mistakes, but everyone will has the chance to correct the mistakes they have committed.

Having said that, if I were you, I would never follow all the rules strictly. Nothing is absolute. I have wandered through other forums of GVN, and I have found something sad about them. Most, not all, but most of the leaders in others forum are likely to take the advantages of being a leader: banning members without giving them a chance to explain, touting, polishing the leaders themselves as icons, dragging behind them a load of followers and frequently making a big deal out of it. Needless to say, you know what will happen and in fact, it's happening now, right here, everyday, in almost every forum of GVN.

That is why peopel left their families. They left because they don't feel they are part of the community. They left because they don't see their benefits for staying. They left because they are only here to have fun, but unperspectively, they got themselves involved into endless and senseless arguments.

So now, to get them back, it is not an easy job. However, you have to prove yourself to them that you are not giving up, that you are not a quitter, that deep down in your heart, you want them to stay with you to share happiness, sadness, and to help you to get through all the troubles. Everyone has a heart, and their hearts will be touched if you know how to get along with them cleverly, and sincerely. I believe no one will leave you as long as they see that you don't want to leave them, to isolate yourself from them. Good luck and be brave!

P.S. I haven't written this much for quite a time, because I'm getting lazy as I'm getting old. However, watching young folks struggling all the time, I hope that my tiny knowledge will provide them an aid, even a little, to get through all the obstacles and to move on. Be strong, be brave, and be proud to be happy with your kids, Hank Huynh.

Cigar
18-12-2003, 14:19
I see..he has an unimagine English skill,hic hic..sorry..but I must say that I can't see all what you wanted to say,my bro..are you come from English university..or you are being aboard.
OathGarden,and now English box..we need and we expect for every one like you in this forum:x

Guo Jia
18-12-2003, 16:18
he he dear Justwonder,

first,what are "hesistate"(or hesitate?) and "Nontheless"(???) mean?_I don't understand!I'm bad in English :p

They are afraid of their own weak points that will make people laugh at them.

_Yes,it's right.But we can't solve it.It depends on themself.If they really want to join with us,they will take "the afraids" away.

First, be sure to let them know that they will not be serverely punished for their wrong doings

-wrong in English grammar or wrong in rules of forum?_If wrong in English grammar,we can correct for them but if they break rules of forum,how can we ignore???

but everyone will has the chance to correct the mistakes they have committed.



yes,we need more tolerant!_I hope Alone can do it.Because I saw You too stern in some case.

I believe no one will leave you as long as they see that you don't want to leave them, to isolate yourself from them

hey,It is too sentiment,isn't it? :p

How to show them that?_Post a topic to sorry them? "I'm really sorry for Exp Substraction! :(( <------ :))

Justwonder
19-12-2003, 01:09
he he dear Justwonder,

first,what are "hesistate"(or hesitate?) and "Nontheless"(???) mean?_I don't understand!I'm bad in English

You're right, I did spell hesitate incorrectly, but did I edit my msg before I post? No, I didn't. And you know what, the way you correct people, is kind of laughing at them. You could have said: "I'm sorry, maybe I'm wrong, but does hesistate is spelled as hesitate, instead?" Does it sound better? Mod, Admin alone can't do all the works. Sometimes, they need help from someones who are good at something, like you, to give them a hand. Unfortunately, it's not happening. One more thing, Nonetheles = Nevertheless. Again, I spell this adverb incorrectly, I'm terribly sorry.

_Yes,it's right.But we can't solve it.It depends on themself.If they really want to join with us,they will take "the afraids" away.

Didn't I mention that for most of the times, they are just kids? Is that your way how to deal with kids? I'm worried about the kids that you deal with.

-wrong in English grammar or wrong in rules of forum?_If wrong in English grammar,we can correct for them but if they break rules of forum,how can we ignore???

Rules? Are you sure that you've never broken the rules? If the rules of GVN were strictly enforced, I'm sure that there are only few members left, plus about several Mods., Admins.

hey,It is too sentiment,isn't it?

How to show them that?_Post a topic to sorry them? "I'm really sorry for Exp Substraction! <------

People are sentimental, aren't they? By the way, I think, maybe I'm wrong myself, too; but is sentiment is a noun, not an adjective, and thus, cannot be placed behind Verb TO BE? Anyway, let's go back to your msg's contents. You made a funny joke by saying "I'm really sorry for Exp Substraction!" Yes, sometimes, if it is necessary, then it should be done. Do you know what the most dangerous thing in an argument? That one of the two sides does not want to admit its faults no matter what. Thus, making the argument goes endlessly and causing the conflict between the two gets more complicated unpredictably.

Last but not least, I'm terrible at English, too. So, please correct me if I make mistakes and I will try to learn them, and to avoid them. Thank you!

Guo Jia
19-12-2003, 07:36
but is sentiment is a noun, not an adjective, and thus, cannot be placed behind Verb TO BE

Uh,what did I do? :((

Thank you for your help.We join this forum to learn more English,ok?So I'm very happy to meet you here,Justwonder!

Hank Williams
19-12-2003, 08:17
Yeah, most of us come here to enlarge our knowledge, and English skills. Then if someone's good at English, this one can help others correct their mistakes.
I'm glad to see all of you here though I've met lots of god damn things lately in my jobs. Just come here, and feel free to talk, that's such a great gift for us :).
Don't mind about people's mistakes, don't laugh at them but help them seriously.
How I wish I could see all of my buddies once more! They almost disappeared :(.
It's okay! Thanks for all! You guys are so kind! I'll take that with me :).

Cigar
19-12-2003, 14:00
Better to work,Hank.
I will try to make this box more loudly..I not have time to discuss here ,can you sympath with me:x:x
Hey flying spot,you have good E skill,why don't you help Mr Wolf a little??

Hank Williams
20-12-2003, 08:33
Thanks for your help, buddy. Do what you can to develope this place, but don't mind having no time to discuss here :).

middleofnowhere
26-12-2003, 20:47
Do you want to improve this club? I think the first thing you have to do is to write correct English here. When you do that, everyone think that they can gain much more experience of English when they come here.
agree with me?

Hank Williams
27-12-2003, 08:36
Do you want to improve this club? I think the first thing you have to do is to write correct English here. When you do that, everyone think that they can gain much more experience of English when they come here.
agree with me?
Yeeeessss, it's always a good idea, it's an idea-for-life :). How-e-ver, if you found some guy who's an expert, he would be the one-and-only, or he must be a real English.
Who can be sure that he always use right English skills?
Help each other, it's a good way.

middleofnowhere
27-12-2003, 16:55
I think we must correct.... no no no.....just point out something about the way people use English here, such as never use short language (r u ok?......something like that) or we should have some topic where we can post some essays, or paragraphs about something we like in order to find out how well we write English. All the others have to do is to give comments, feedback to improve not only our skill but my friend's as well.
Is there something wrong? Please show out your idea or point of views. Thanks

Andromeda
28-12-2003, 17:01
I think I will dicuss some topics by writing an essay. If i write a short paragraph, no one feels attracted to reply my post! Just watch justwonder's post! Do you agree? I know writing essay will take you lots time, but just try!

lính vũ trụ
20-01-2004, 21:06
héhé, there are two "biu-ti_phun" girls here :P , can I join you two, milady? To improve this forum, I think we should have more member and to have more member you could (threaten them, maybe?) give them some exp.

...I have some private words for Wolf: "have you found a girl?, if not then explain me about your avatar and your " Tien Nu"?"

Bluelion
20-01-2004, 21:13
I don't think I should chat here, but I'll explain for him: Andromeda is the title of one of the 5 main characters in the manga "Saint Seiya", Alone Wolf's favourite manga, and in that manga, Shun the Andromeda is his favourite character, just like mine is Virgo Shaka (Shaka the Maiden - the blond boy at my signature). And according to what I heard from him, hes currently seven love.

dieukydieu
25-01-2004, 16:01
Yeh
Wish for this forum .... there are many!!!!!! or much!!!! uncountable!!!!..... kekeke!!...
First!!!!, i can improve my English through this box so i want to offer something for this box!!!!! Yeh i wish that this box will develop very large in sight more and more!!... and many people can join in this as their home keke!!! :))
This box can expand many other topics for the difference and plenty of subjects!!!....!!! But this forum is about games! so this box can talk much more about games!!!!!! ... yeah!!! more about games!!!... :)).
Moderators of this box should organise many more test for every members can join and test their knowledge!!@.... :))
Moderators can open many more English puzzles and English knowledge contests and .... add many many Exp....kekekeke!!!!! Sure that members joining crowded!!!! .....
Yeh now some good topics can be set to pinned topics for members can see easily!!! and remove some very old or useless topics or posts in topics!!!....!!!....
Members in this box can open more polls about many things in life or some special fields as music, movies...!!! and when members join must have some comment about which they poll!.. Yeah many other idea for this forum but now.... i must leave... and other times..... kekek! :))

Cigar
26-01-2004, 19:48
Ke ke ke..if many kind of fishing member like you and I come here..this box will grow up,ke ke ke.
If they are threat each other well..the other will reply quickly,and this box will grow:))

dieukydieu
26-01-2004, 20:41
yeh keke!!!
More fishing member like us, more development for this box!!!
seemly now there aren't many people coming into here?? i see this box feels calm and quite after many hours while others are very crowded.. keke!!! here is only some fishing and if ....wanna improve this, need to ...pull other fishing coming here, but it's seemly hard :)) fishings like Vietnamese more than English :))

Cigar
26-01-2004, 20:48
I not find enough VietNamese lake to fish..so I come to England..there's the big lake to fish..and it's here.
Beside the lake.. a few tree to chop--->Broom,ke ke ke.
It's so hard to find English fisher,ke ke

Guo Jia
27-01-2004, 15:32
what is fishing huh?We come here to improve our English,so it's not called fish!
I think to improve this forum,Mod or Smod should have more visiting and answering to others.
Both alone and Hank have not talked with other for a long times!

Cigar
27-01-2004, 17:23
Both alone and Hank have not talked with other for a long times!

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:)) they said that it make the quality of our forum will come down:))...I don't understand what they say:))
I come here to learn..may be,but I use to talk there because it's my habbit..that's all.And I see I can read English thread easier than the time before...
It's great to go there..because,a lot of my friends there:x

Guo Jia
28-01-2004, 08:27
of course,we come here to visit our friend and we don't need mod or smod must enjoy with our.But our English forum seems has not enough mem so we need mod or smod enjoy!

Andromeda
28-01-2004, 21:55
Yes, I told you once. I will enjoy topic which makes me interesting in. So what are they? Not love anoymore, some of games is okie, maybe Manga. I love to discuss in these topics. I don't like to talk or post in topic which to make friends.

I still come here everyday. but posting in limited to keep the quality of this box. Ciga, someday you will understand what we said.

Now I am busy of deciding which course I will take in next semester.

Cigar
29-01-2004, 10:13
Wolf..you are Mod here..and you duty is keep this box noisy.
If every one think the same with you-->this box will become the wild Garden...no one like to visit it.
I work in Oath Garden and I understand that--->I f I don't post for a long times,every one will bore with that box..so no one dare to visit that,some one like KD said that:I feel bore because Ciga left this garden wild..so I can't say anything.
(It was the time I left this forum because of my report)..
We don't agree about fishing,it's mean talk without thinking,talk for exp..no no.
You said that the makes friend topic no need to talk:))I think my topic was very funny to talk:))

Andromeda
30-01-2004, 00:36
Perhaps your toipic is funny to post, but it does not attract me! I used to post much, many posts here, I remember that one day I posted 100 posts. However, I recognize that I made my topic, my box became a place to fish! I feel regret. Therefore, I must think clearly before I post or reply someone's topic. I don't want to reply without soul, feeling in those posts.

Yes, I know my responsibility in this box. I must make it exciting, but not by post much. I am, however, falling deeply in playing games. I can play games all days and spend less time on Net and check forum. Long time ago, I did not take any games except FF and Re. Now, I am return to my real style, a child who likes playing games!

dieukydieu
30-01-2004, 11:34
I think both of you say right and...wrong
I agree with Ciga about the status of this box now is very silent and more silent if Ciga don't posts here one day! i don't want so!
And Wolf says very exactly about the quality of some topics! Yeah! i think if we follow the quantity, maybe fishing status will appear too much and then we will more bored than now!
I think we can organise some thing for ex: a test of writing something.
Do you agree with me? and we have to introduce this box to many people so that the silent status can be improved.

Cigar
30-01-2004, 15:31
Yes, I know my responsibility in this box. I must make it exciting, but not by post much. I am, however, falling deeply in playing games. I can play games all days and spend less time on Net and check forum. Long time ago, I did not take any games except FF and Re. Now, I am return to my real style, a child who likes playing games
I didn't say that you was wrong..Doggy,but we post or don't post,it's depend on the circumstance of that box,well when it's too silent,you let it with the silent..where are the duty of the Mod:to keep this box??
Well may be your behaviour right IF the circumstance of that box is-->the fishing box.
We don't want to talk about it more,but if we catch the problem by one_way sight,we will not complete correct.
I feel sypathetics with Hank,who have the love with that box,may be he has the same emotion like me..I don't say that it's your mistake,Wolf...but we lack of member now..

Andromeda
30-01-2004, 23:47
Yes, I know we lack of members now and you want this box to have more people come here. How can it be?

I tried once like I said. Open a topic to greet people in their birthdays. However, they just came once and left away when getting exp. Fun huh? Or I must send messages to all members in GVN to come this box and enjoy with us?

Opening quizzes??? Some people here did that and what I got? Got debating from them. They just search on some sites and copy it here. They do for exp, if I don't give them exp, they will not post more.

Why didn't I give them exp? If you ask that, I won't answer. I told them once. If you want to know, just PM me or chat with me by Yahoo Messenger!

I have no free time in holiday. I have only 3 weeks to relax and I want to use 3 weeks in playing game, not for working. When I come back to school, I will work here much. Why? Because I will use Net in my school, I don't need to worry about money which I must pay at last of each month. Now you can see that I am posting this post at near 12:00 AM. At this time, I only cost 20 vnd per a minute.

If you want to see magic happen in this box, you must wait.

Regard,

Cigar
31-01-2004, 09:31
Yes,I can't stand that status :they come here for exp,and they leave..Just leave our box alone..
And I understand why you did give them exp when new year has come..they ask for lucky money..how funny.
And I se they spam that topic on all GVN..exp not the right way to attract they here.
To make the test:I think MR Wolf not have enough power..so leave him alone..

lính vũ trụ
02-02-2004, 18:49
Hey what are you talking? You think people like me come here for Exp or s.t like that? Heh I think if you talked in that way, you have hit someone like Baximut (a donkey), Chrono (a Clock) and me (a Space sodier), you think we come and leave? heh, I can tell you, this is the only forum I come to write some lines. And the reason I(or all others people) leave or back is learning. So don't missunderstand us!

Andromeda
02-02-2004, 20:26
hey guy, long time no see!

I did not mention you, baximus, chrono. You were absent here for long time and know nothing about what was going on in this box.

When you went away with your studying, this box seemed to lack funny, after that, auron baximus did not come here too because of his stuying at Thailand. I know Chrono is busy with some game boxs in GVN.

I told some people who came here after you were absent. They came here and give me their birthday and went away. I still hold their birhtday in my note. And I can tell you exactly who they are.

For example: in this month, we have one person's birthday. He is Mage, 02/28.
However, he just came here in short and now, I did not see him anymore. The same for others.

I don't mention good members here like : TI (he is busy with his forum), lemoney, justwonder, BROOM, you, Auron Baximus, Bluelion (busy with his fiction),... and some who I know well in this box.

Guo Jia
02-02-2004, 21:22
To dear cigar:You don't need to discuss with Alone any more!
All things he talked made I understand what kind person he is!They make me sick +_+ you and alone have too much difference,you're lovely,friendly and with alone I don't want to say anything with him!
Boring!

Andromeda
02-02-2004, 23:06
Yes, talking to me is very boring because I don't reply you as fast as ciga. I am always absent here for long time and only post 1 post after.

I am not lovely and friendly, and everybody here does not say it either. No need to compare!

I came here to learn in first times, at that times, I enjoyed discussing with everybody about love, stusying, life,... I was happy at that time, besides, I am have lots free time at that time. Don't you know that before you came here, in this box had only few members? They are: Hank Huynh, me, BROOM, Chrono, Auron Baximus, linh vu tru, troc. However who ussually posted only 5, Auron, linh vu tru, BROOM and troc. After that, we met Anacode, friend of linh vu tru's. Long time after that, we met cigar, and now, we have you, kefka, justwonder, lemoney,...

I don't want to arguing with anybody here, you can see that I only come to this box. However, when I came here, I saw lots new posts, but they did not attract me much. Only make friends, love. I talked about them enough.

Today I got enough troubles, no need to get more. My school has some problems in their minds. I viewed my grades and knew that I passed a class level 4, but now, they registered me to study level 4 again while my friends who studied level 4 with me passed too, and he only took Toelf class. How can it be? Because of this, I ingored and did not take a web program class. When my parents knew what I have done, They yelled me so much. And now, when I come here, I see you yell me. It is fun. I am alone and I don't want anybody to understand me.

Guo Jia
03-02-2004, 00:02
Oh?They forced you studying level 4 again regardless you had enough points to pass level 4?
And then you refused their decision?I think you were brave,but why don't you show your grades which can make you pass level 4 to them?
If they have been shown its but then they still force you studying level 4 again.Then I think you need explain to your parents.

And ,I just want to talk to you that your problems aren't anything without your thinking "I'm alone and I don't want anyone to understand me"

At last,I compared you and Cigar,maybe you think I were too impolite,I'm sorry but I always have my comparisions and "I don't want to be alone and I need everybody understand me!"

Justwonder
03-02-2004, 13:59
Guo Jia: my message is not directly pointing at you, rather, it is just an opinion of an observer. As an observer, I see that both Wolf and you have crossed your lines.

However, as for Wolf, his reaction could be undertandable. His pissed off attitude could be sympathized. He has enough reaons and excuses to be on fire. Fortunately, I can see that he has done his best to control his temper to the best of his. Even though Wolf's problems at schools and at home are just his own struggles for him to deal with, he has no right to drag them here and whin about them. This, I have to say it's another problem that he has to deal with. Having said that, I also understand that it's not his own will to talk about them in the first place. It's you, Guo Jia, you were the one who ignited the fire and who detonated the bomb to cause it to explode.

Furthermore, as for you, Guo Jia, you are insulting the nick you bear. You have to realize that you can never judge people before you walk at least a mile in their shoes. Point saying, how can you compare Cigarrete with Wolf through their words? Please do not tell me that there is a big difference between comparing and judging. If you have learned enough, if you have studied enough, and if you have matured enough, then I don't have to explain to you why there is no difference between judging and comparing.

Back to the conflict between you, Guo Jia, and Wolf, I let you two deal with each other for your own sake. As for Wolf, I believe he is wise enough, old enough, and mature enough to know how to solve his own problems, you do not have interfere in, unless he asks you for your help. I suggest you, Guo Jia, to leave him alone, and to look at yourself before you make another critique about me and about my post.

Last but not least, Wolf, when you pissed off, freaked off, and even f***ed off, just go somewhere else, somewhere you can be alone, to calm yourself, to release all the stresses you have accumulated and to get rid off the depressions you have stuffed in your head before making a public appearance.

P.S. Xicàque, you'd better stay out of this if you don't want to cause the flame gets bigger!

Cigar
03-02-2004, 14:01
Silent...
I don't want to make quarell in this box,I like talk in funny,and I always smile when I see funny postings...
Feel no pain but my life isn't easy,I know I'm my best friend...no need to hear,if some one said that what I done ain't right.
So,silent..

Andromeda
03-02-2004, 15:08
Thanks justwonder! You stoped both of us from the bad arguing. I agree that I lost my control at that time. It is also my fault, I no need to take my own problems in studying into this topic. I must solve them myself, and today I did it. They said sorry to me and allowed me to sign up other classes.

Thinking about myself, I recognize that I am not old enough like justwonder said. If I am old enough, I must know how to avoid this arguing, I must know how to calm my feeling. Sometimes, I know how, but sometimes not. However, I still say thanks to you again, you helped me out of bad mood.

And this is my own thought in English box. Just I said before, I came here to learn English in first time, and I was attracted in this box because people here using English very good and being kind so much. I can say this box is the best box in GVN. No arguing, no fighting, it is what I saw in this box at that time when I was a 12th pupil. Now I am a second_year student and I still see this box is very good. So, I don't want to see this box in a bad mood.

If all of you don't mind, I will be absent here a week. I have some things to do before I take my new semester. Please, remember this, I like to post here and like to make friends with all of you too, but I think the best way to make friends and understand each other well is using Yahoo messenger.

So if some of you have somethings to talk or comment about me, just add my nick in yahoo. It will be my pleasure,

Guo Jia
03-02-2004, 16:06
he he good luck for you alone.bye bye !(but I'm sure you don't need I say that .,ok? :)))

And now is dear Just guys:How big problem you are imagined!_"A small problem likes a rabbit" :))Why must I calm down?he he,I were not crazzy kike you imagined!Here is Net so I don't mention about that,
I have ever looked at both alone and you like man to man,or more than friend to friend,and I thought we could talk together by open and broad-minded,But by the way of you had talked before,I begin to change my thinking!-->Thanks for that he he...
And the last thing I want to say that Guo Jia is my icon and I don't ashame to him!
Bye all of this E forum!

dieukydieu
03-02-2004, 19:32
Guo Jia: I agree with you about this is not a big problem so that we can argue forever and many people have many ideas and how long the argument will be solved? But we can not stop it in a short way! Because whether the box can be more developing or not is due to the argument, however, someone doesnt like this much, but if this box is very silent , do you think that is very good?? i think it is a seemly silent status and very bad if it is the cause that two or more are angry with each other!
I think if we want to argue or offer ideas to the public or MOds, Mods should listen although those opinions is what you dont like or dont want to hear! Some topics have many posts like chatting or "fishing" as you say, and you dont want this and you say that in the past this box status is better than now?? I think i cant agree with you. The most ỉmportant thing now is this box status now, not in the past. We must have something to help this box. however , in the past thêre were many members posting here very well?? Yeah, but now, can you do that return the gold time as you said?
If you dont want me to talk more, i wont say more!... but my opinion is so! and sure think you can see....

Cigar
05-02-2004, 10:05
Just sit here and wait for the way that Alone repair that problem...
If that box,still silent for a long times like that,may be I must follow Guo Jia,Hank create that topic to develope our forum,but everything seems not change,why??

vBulletin
08-02-2004, 10:59
I wish that this box will have more and more interesting topic. And the number of member come here more and more. I will try to join this box often to join you. Hope that we could learn each other more . Hank is such a good member of this box, Wolf is my friend and when he's gone I must help him a hand in this box. Now pls help to improve this English forum with the interesting topic and friendship

Cigar
08-02-2004, 11:10
Ok boy..let's try it together...
I see that we have the available poster(the one who post in this box..not a banner or something like that:)))
You are friend of AW??Why don't you post here in that times...
May be no time to make question.just thank for all you has done in this forum(but please don't copy and paste,man;;-))

vBulletin
08-02-2004, 12:27
Yah! he he to help him know more about the Valentine day i think that it's the best way. i have that site on my own pivate website too. Pls come to see the following sites:
www.vbulletin.vze.com
www.vbulletin.web1000.com
They are building and I use that webpage to make it my homepage.

Cigar
08-02-2004, 15:15
Man,may be that's the best way to make information about valentine day..but it still out of our rules[-x
You know the information on internet is various,bring it here is unaceptable,that's all
I join a lot of forum,but...why,I only like this site..GVN forever:))
Hmm,introduce about your sites,and may be your secret will be discover..I see you are an agressive one :lol

dam_is_life
22-02-2004, 02:01
Excuse me? Could I have a say, I notice that whenever I switch the topic the " kieu go" changes into auto too, which is very inconvinient, this forum doesn't need any vnmese font, right? any way of correcting this inconvinience? If not, thanks for the attention. Hix

Minh So
22-02-2004, 23:11
Not a prob. I never was able to write 3 posts per day ^_^ (so just three F8 button pressings are not much)

Why this forum's so silent ? I dun know. You all here are nice, friendly, ... but not interesting (interesting in my way of course) and so do the topics. Sozzy to say that - I mean no offend, pls don't blame me :((
Think we're not on the same lines, You are more likely good people, highly graduation, some one maybe soft (or gentle if you dun want that word^_^) and other maybe a little old enough like Hank, Just. And I, I'd rather like smth rough, harash...
The only reason I come here is English, if this forum is VNess like the others, then it will not ever have me.

PS : lacking of skill + busy --> so I just can read your posts >_<

dam_is_life
23-02-2004, 22:10
boredom, I share that feeling with you. It is not the way you can't share the healthy view with other lovely people, or you can't shout out your view. it is an empty feeling, boredom. And it is so fearful when I sit here with no sign of any sounds. Total silence. Hix. Bored.

Justwonder
23-02-2004, 23:41
The main problem is not that this box is bored. Instead, the entire gameVN makes people lose their interest in posting. I'm not refering to any particular individual, however, it is what is currently going on right here, right now, at gameVN, and thus, affection is not avoidable. I used to think that I will have some fun out of my leisure time when I first convinced by my friend to sign up for gameVN. Unfortunately, everything has changed so rapidly since I joined. I really don't want to say this, but gameVN needs some changes ASAP.

Cigar
24-02-2004, 10:58
I dun care about the status of gvN NOW,We don't have alots of time,why we must care about another???If they are not have enthusiams..I still have.
Just the fun story about the evil side of this forum.
I think we should stop complain..

GCN[vn]
27-02-2004, 23:05
I think we must "Quảng cáo " ,rarely member has a high level E in GVN ,but many are in normal lv E,if they had more practice ,they would have written many good post like u

Cigar
27-02-2004, 23:22
It's lucky that Sir Hiep has maked the signature like that,and he was the famous man.
But I changed my point of view,we don't need a lot of mem here,if so,may be our forum will become the noisy market,and you see our circumstance nowaday..the admins threat to detele the "Cuoc song" category,so many guy come here,and some of them are fishers..may be the unexpect even will ocur that we can't guess.
Sorry,but my E is not good as Mr GCN thought..

Kenzo
04-03-2004, 09:30
There are too many pinned topic in this box, unpinned which is not posted for a long time is a best way to improve this box, please don't make them bored with that.

Duy_Tran
08-04-2004, 10:39
Som recommendations for this topic:
1. Turn off the auto translating Vietnamese typing mode. It's really hard and confused when sometimes i try to type a word but it's automatic changed to Vietnamese, and then i have to delete and re-type.
2. Allow members can use abbreviation, like you as "u". It's much more interesting to learn someone's experiences about chat with this type of language.
3. Encourage some funny topics by giving more exps and mps for who has these ideas about that topic.
4. Open a chat room in some servers that they can get more chances to chit chat together. I think it will not affect our topics coz members in here will less post their threats and we can also get some more members from this chat room. I've got one, if you allow, i can help you to do this, but i also need your help to do this.
Some other recommandations but i haven't thought to yet. Lol!!!

Hank Williams
08-04-2004, 18:19
1. Turn off the auto translating Vietnamese typing mode. It's really hard and confused when sometimes i try to type a word but it's automatic changed to Vietnamese, and then i have to delete and re-type.
Lemme see ... you type in VNI mode, right? So you should press the button F8 3 times before writing something, or you can see more details at the status bar.

2. Allow members can use abbreviation, like you as "u". It's much more interesting to learn someone's experiences about chat with this type of language.
:-? No problem man... :-?

Duy_Tran
12-04-2004, 10:15
Hey Hank, do u think that if we organize some debates in this box that would make our box more interesting? By encouraging the debate, we can give 4 winners more EXP or MP. :-/
The mark give for each side by viewers. More, we should need an umpire 2 make it fair, and some examiners 2 check ideas n grammars.
What do u think about it? If it's good, u should notice 2 every1. >:-D<

vuminhtan_84
26-05-2004, 14:21
ok, I think it's very good to practise english here(I would be very pleased if all of you agree to let me join thix box).I also want to increase my exp he he.You should mark us by showing mistakes like:grammar,word,punctuation,sentence order and tense(we can't mark intonation and world stress because we just write,not speak he he)

Hank Williams
27-05-2004, 14:07
Oh, you're always welcome. We love to have you here ;).
Don't worry about making mistake in English. Everybody has mistake. Sometimes we can correct each other, but I think people don't really wanna do that coz they don't wanna make each other feel "uncomfortable" and "irritated".
By the way, glad to meet you!
--Regards--

vuminhtan_84
27-05-2004, 16:54
you say that everybody isn't pleased with being pointed out their mistakes, so what's the aim of this box?It isn't a test at school,so don't worry about it,and it help all of us improve our english to have better result at school(but I'm not a pupil anymore).There's no reason for us to get irritated when someone point out our mistakes,we can learn something throuh them to improve our english

Hank Williams
29-05-2004, 08:27
Nah, I didn't mean that. I think you misunderstood me, man. It's a thought of people, sometimes they wanna correct others' mistakes, but actually they think that "it might make this guy hate me? Or someone else will think that I wanna be the master?" :).
In my opinion, I always want people to help each other in order to improve our knowledge, but that thing really depends on us.
---
Regards

vuminhtan_84
29-05-2004, 12:38
I think so.For example,if I point out too many mistake,they will think that I criticise.But if no one correct our mistake,how will this box be(locked or delete)?

Hank Williams
29-05-2004, 13:09
Absolutely no. A lot of people come here just for relax or simply their favourite. Of course gathering more information and widening knowledge are the most important thing. If you wanna improve your English skills, you can practice them here as well. I don't think helping each other by correcting mistakes is a the best way. You can easily improve you skills by reading, viewing, and talking, discussing to each other.
Actually, I come here just for relaxation, English is one of my favourite though my English is not good at all >_<.

vuminhtan_84
31-05-2004, 20:31
hmmm.I see, but I think that's enough for an amateur like you,because there are many students don't care about E,and they think that they only need to study it little to have the degree with advanced specialized subjects.That's the reason why when they speak E to foreigner, they can hardly understand a word.Nevertheless,industrious students know many languages and have profound knowledge of their specialized subjects(I really envy them).So I think it's not too hard for us to do something

Master Of Art
26-07-2004, 17:00
As my opinion, I think only talking in an open forum like this could make my skill improved, beacause that make people not be embarassed to express their feeling. But direct talking could help more.

thien duong
27-07-2004, 19:55
This a diary about our English Club.You can write anything about your family,school,stuff...ect...That's it.Write whatever you like.Well,have fun,this will help to improve your English,though.

thien duong
27-07-2004, 19:56
*Be slow in choosing a friend;slower in changing
(FRANKLIN)
*There are three faithful friends:an old wife,an old dog,and ready money
(FRANKLIN)
*A pure hand neđs no glove to cover it
(N.HAWTHORN-The Scarlet letter)
*Time is the wisest counsellor
(PERICLES)
*Better late than never
(LIVY)
*On earth there is nothing great but man;in man there is nothing great but mind
(A.HAMILTON)
*The philosophy of one century is the common sense of the next
(HENRY WARD BEECHER)
*Self-conguest is the greatest of victory
(PLATO)
*How grand is victory,but how dear!
(BOUFFLERS)
*Nature,time,and pantience are th three great physicians
(H.G.BOHN)

thien duong
27-07-2004, 19:57
Mình thì không sưu tầm mấy câu tục ngữ và thành ngữ tiếng Anh mấy, nhưng cũng có một số nhỏ để khi khủng hoảng tinh thần thì lấy ra mà đọc để trở lại bình thường

"Worry is like a rocking chair.
It gives you something to do
but it doesn't get you anywhere"
-Evan Esar

"To be upset over what you don't have....
is to waste what you do have."
-Ken Keyes

"The beginning of a habit is like an invisible
thread, but every time we repeat the act we
strengthen the stand, add to it another
filament until it becomes a great cable and
binds us irevocably, in thought and act"
-Orison Marden

"Yesterday is history, tomorrow, a mystery.
And today is a gift;
thats why we call it the present."
-Babatunde Olatunji

thien duong
27-07-2004, 19:58
Làm vài câu cho vui:
Life is a succession of lessons which must be lived to be understood.
— Helen Keller (1880-1968).
The talent for being happy is appreciating and liking what you have, instead of what you don't have.
— Woody Allen (1935- ).
When you cease to dream, you cease to live.
— Malcolm S. Forbes .
There are three ingredients in the good life: learning, earning and yearning.
— Christopher Morley .
I'd rather be a could-be if I cannot be an are
Because a could-be is a maybe who is reaching for a star.
I'd rather be a has-been than a might-have-been, by far
For a might-have-been has never been, but a has was once an are.
— Milton Berle (1908-2002).
I'd hate to die twice. It's so boring.
— Richard Feynman .
Only the wisest and stupidest of men ever change.
— Confucius .
Only when you've been in the deepest valley can you know how magnificent it is to be atop the highest mountain.
— President Richard M. Nixon (1913-1994).
If life had only good things, you wouldn't be able to appreciate the good things.
— Bobby Valentine (1950- ).
The sun don't shine on the same dog's ass all the time.
— Jim 'Catfish' Hunter (1946-1999).
It's better to burn out than to fade away.
— Neil Young .
Life is a war won or lost within your own self, won with pride and respect or lost by guilt and doubt.
— Tommy Higgins .
We learn the rope of life by untying its knots.
—Unknown.
If you are not living on the edge, then you are taking up too much room.
—Unknown.
Without music, life would be a serious mistake.

— Friedrich Nietzsche (1844-1900).
Do not take life too seriously. You will never get out of it alive.
— Elbert Hubbard (1856-1915).
When one door of happiness closes, another opens; but often we look so long at the closed door that we do not see the one which has been opened for us.
— Helen Keller (1880-1968).
You will never discover new oceans unless you have the courage to lose sight of the shore.
-Unknown.
It's not true that life is one d*mn thing after another. It is the same d*mn thing over and over again.
—Unknown.
You were born an original. Don't die a copy.
— John Mason .
Each morning when I open my eyes I say to myself: "I, not events, have the power to make me happy or unhappy today. I can choose which it shall be. Yesterday is dead, tomorrow hasn't arrived yet. I have just one day, today, and I'm going to be happy in it."
— Groucho Marx (1890-1977).
If you hold on tight to what you think is your thing, you might find you're missing all the rest.
— Dave Mathews (1967- ).
Missing someone gets easier every day, because even though it's one more day since you last saw them, it's one less day until you will see them again.
—Unknown.
I don't need drugs. Life is already tragic enough.
— Eddie Vedder .
Life is pain, Highness. Anyone who says differently is selling something.
— "The Princess Bride"
Death makes angels of us all, gives us wings where we had shoulders smooth as ravens' claws.
— Jim Morrison (1943-1970).
Big differences that can be worked out are less dangerous than small differences that can't be.
— Thomas Sowell (1930- ).
The world is a book and those who stay at home read only one page.
— St. Augustine (354-430).
Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and take a look around once in a while, you can miss it.
— "Ferris Beuller's Day Off"
The ones for me are the mad ones, the ones who are mad to live, mad to talk, mad to be saved, desirous of everything at the same time, who never yawn or say a commonplace thing, but burn, burn, burn like fabulous yellow roman candles exploding like spiders across the stars.
— Jack Kerouac (1922-1969).
You'll never see the stars if you are always looking down.
—Unknown.
If you spend your whole life waiting for the storm, you'll never enjoy the sunshine.
— Morris West (1916-1999).
When I hear someone say life is hard, I'm always tempted to say, "Compared to what?"
—Unknown.
Time is flying by and memories are pieces of time frozen in your mind forever for you to look at every day so you know how good and bad life can be.

— Christopher Lee Frey .
A life without mistakes is a mistake within itself.
— Dustin Patte .
One can live magnificently in this world if one knows how to work and how to love.
— Count Leo Tolstoy (1828-1910).
I never knew how someone dying could say he was the luckiest man in the world. But now I understand.
— Mickey Mantle (1931-1995).
The hardest part about moving on is never looking back.
— Dawson Leary .
A prudent man will think more important what fate has conceded to him, than what it has denied.
— Baltasar Gracián (1601-1658).
I like trees because they seem more resigned to the way they have to live than other things do.
— Willa Cather (1875-1947).
To live is to suffer, but to survive well that's to find meaning in the suffering
— "DMX"
If you care about what people think about you, how will you ever know how you feel about you?
— Rebecca Fisher .
Life is a disease, sexually transmitted and always fatal.
— Noah George .
When you were born, everyone around was smiling and you were the one crying. Live life so that when you die, everyone around you is crying and you are the one smiling.
—Unknown.
The great and glorious masterpiece of humanity is to know how to live with a purpose.
— Michel de Montaigne (1533-1592).
Sometimes I think we Americans are the loneliest people in the world. To be sure, we hunger for the power of affection, the self-acceptance that gives life. It is the oldest and strongest hunger in the world. But hungering is not enough.
— Sherwood Anderson (1876-1941).
Life is nothing but an animated form of death.
—Unknown.
As in the physical world, so in the spiritual world, pain does not last forever.
— Katherine Mansfield (1888-1923).
Living a good life and living the good life are not the same thing.
—Unknown.
Everyone is necessarily the hero of his own life story.
— John Barth .
The last thing a man does is the last thing a man wants to do!
— Paul Newman .
However mean your life is, meet it and live it; do not shun it and call it hard names.
— Henry David Thoreau (1817-1862).
You never know when you're making a memory.
— Jen Perott .
If you wish to draw tears from me you must first feel pain yourself.
Si vis me fleke dolendum est primum upsi tibi.
—Unknown.
Life's a lesson; you learn it when you're through.
— Fred Durst .
What can be added to the happiness of a man who is in health, out of debt, and has a clear conscience?
— Adam Smith (1723-1790).
Life is either a daring adventure or nothing.
— Helen Keller (1880-1968).
The best years of your life are the ones in which you decide your problems are your own. You do not blame them on your mother, the ecology or the president. You realize that you control your own destiny.
— Albert Ellis (1913- ).
Ask yourself whether you are happy, and you will cease to be so.
— John Stuart Mill (1806-1873).
A smile is the shortest distance between two people.
— Victor Borge (1909-2000).
Every man dies; not every man really lives.
— "Braveheart"
Is life worth living? That depends on the liver.
—Unknown.
A man who views the world the same at fifty as he did at twenty has wasted thirty years of his life.

thien duong
27-07-2004, 19:59
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A civil denial is better than a rude grant :Mất lòng trước,được lòng sau
A clean fast is better than a dirty breakfast:Giấy rách phải giữ lấy lề .Đói cho sạch rách cho thơm
A clean hand wants no washing:Thiệt vàng không sợ lửa .Vàng tốt không nệ bán rao .
A clear conscience laughs at false accusations:Cây ngay không sợ chết đứng .
A close mouth catches no flies:Đa ngôn đa quá .Lời nói gây ra chiến tranh.
A danger foreseen is half avoided:Cẩn tắc vô ưu (Cẩn thận sẽ tránh được phiền toái).Nhân vô viễn lự tất hữu cận ưu .(Người không lo xa ắt có buồn gần)
A fault confessed is half redressed:Biết nhận lỗi là đã sửa chữa được phân nửa .
A flow will have anebb :Sông có khúc,người có lúc .
A fool and his money are soon parted:Đồng tiền thằng ngốc nằm không nóng túi .
A fool tongue runs before his wit:Chưa đặt đít đã đặt mồm .
A friend inneed is a friend indeed:Bạn bè hiểu nhau khi hoạn nạn .
A good deed is never lost:Làm ơn không bao giờ thiệt .
A good name is better than riches:Tốt danh hơn lành áo .
A good name is sooner lost than won:Mua danh ba vạn,bán danh ba đồng .
A good workman is known by his chips:Xem việc biết người,Xem trong bếp biết nếp đàn bà .
A good wife is a good prize:Một người vợ tốt là vô giá .
A honey tongue ,a heart of gall:Khẩu phật tâm xà .Nói năng quân tử,cư xử tiểu nhân .
A little is better than none:Ít còn hơn không .
A man can do no more than he can:Sức người có hạn .
A man can die but once:Đời người chỉ chết một lần .